November 22, 2009

A New Day

So now everything is resolved regarding the LA trip. There was a lot of miscommunication and things that I just didn't understand which made the whole situation worse than it needed to be. Basically, it turns out that a lot of the reason I wasn't aware of every little detail is because she was hoping to "surprise" me by footing the bill for the entire trip - and just pick up the tab as we went along. Which is really nice. She said she saw how stressed I was without SoldierMan, and with selling the house and everything, and she wanted to take me on a fun trip. So yeah, this was a big mea culpa moment. I didn't really understand what was going on and made assumptions and jumped to conclusions. So now I think we'll be able to go and have a great time. Which feels good.

What doesn't feel so good is hearing from SoldierMan that he never got my first envelope of letters - which had the first two weeks' worth of letters in it. So this explains why he was begging so hard for letters - he thinks I didn't write him at all those first two weeks. So now I am praying hard that he gets that one soon - or else, if I for whatever reason screwed up the address, it gets returned to me, so I can resend it, because I know I got the return address right. It's been a week since I sent it, it was the first one I sent, and he's gotten all the ones I sent after that one. So I don't know what the deal is. It's very frustrating and worrisome.

BTW, there will be a giveaway tomorrow. Don't forget to check back!


  1. i am glad everything worked out okay!

  2. I am glad everything worked out for you girly! :)

  3. Hey! I hear ya' about the letter situation. The Hubby's training Squadron withheld letters for the first couple weeks. But after that he was getting them frequently.

    Have fun in LA! :)


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